The Past

All of us have a PAST.

What's the first thing in your mind that you think when you heard that word.

The Past. For some of us it's a heavy word. Specially this word always associate with a drastic experience.

Quality Time With My Son

Today, I had a great time with my son. His father is on duty today though its Sunday.


But I don't care. I will not ruin our Sunday because of that. So I decided that we will go out even the two of us only. Correction, we are three, we let us join the one who takes care of my son.

We go to church first. We went in Sto. Domingo Church. We attend the 12pm English Mass.

How Do You Value Your Family?

"My family is very important to me. They are my strength, yet they are my weakness too. They are my inspiration for all the things that I am doing. I value them so much in my life".

You, how do you value your own family?

Some of us value our FAMILY like a treasure. Though you are not rich but you are rich with love from your family. No money can be compare to a family, specially with a complete family.

But what if you don't have a complete family?

It's not okay, but it depends on how you deal with the situation. So what if you have a broken family? What important is you don't waste your life. After all, you still have the remaining member of the family with you that loves you and takes care of you. Don't waste your life just because you have a broken family. Don't ask GOD why. Just remember that HE was just testing you, that every problem have a solution. It's just the right point of view of every individual to handle the situation well.

What if you have a complete family but is dying inside?

This is very different from a broken family that still have a positive point of view despite of the lacking member of the family. Many of us belong to a family like this. Complete outside, but broken and dying inside. Full of fake love and relatioship. You tried to be perfect in front of others but you the reality inside your family. Some of us just remain with a complete family to save the reputation of your family. Or you are in politics or a professional that in the eyes of others it is very important that you have a complete family. So you will try your best to save your family despite of the differences inside your house.

Do you try to save your relationship?

Of course, almost all of us tried that. But what if everything is not really worthy. No matter how you tried your very best, your partner is really pushing you away. If you are a girl, it will hurts you so much. You will get emotional. You will cry for failing to save the relationship but after that you will have the courage to move on.

If you are a guy, you will not show much emotion but it's hard on your part because of not showing too much emotions. You are hurt inside but because you are a guy you still needbto show that you are strong and it's like nothing. One of the reason why a man is more suicidal than a woman.

Falling Out of Love

"Falling Out of Love"

Who of us would like to be in this stage, specially if you were already married? Of course we don't want to. But what if we do everything for our relationship to work? But it's your partner who is pushing you away.

But do you really fall out of love with him/her? Counter check yourself, your feelings. Are you just tired that someday it will be like the old times, back in your recent years that is full of love and sweetness with each other. Are you hoping that someday, it will be the same like when you are not yet a couple?

Well, a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is really different from a real couple, specially a married couple. Let me differentiate.

A boyfriend/girlfriend relationship - sweetness overload. A guy always makes her girl happy always. Lots of gimmick that her girl will surely never forget. Will always show his good sides that a girl will surely can't resist. No matter how impossible a thing it will be possible for him. Lots of sacrifices exerted always just to please his girl.

A real couple/married couple - everything is transparent. At start you will remain sweet. Until you are on your seven years of marriage, you will be surprise with the difference. No more sweetness and sweet nothings unlike your gilrfriend/biyfriend stage. All manners are shown whether bad or good. You already know your partner from head to toe. No things can be hide during this stage. When you are angry with him, no effort is exerted to please you and have your forgiveness.